It's about mutual satisfaction and enjoyment." Sex should never be about making someone feel like an object. "Now, three-ways are all about making the receiver feel like their fantasies and desire are being met. "The Eiffel Tower is not the way is commonly practiced with sex-positive individuals these days," Engle said. The Threesome: When One More Isn’t a Crowd Without this communication, the high-five, in particular, runs the risk of offending the penetrated partner. With prior communication and consent, the Eiffel Tower can still work. "It's a fun visual, but that's all there is to it."Īccording to Engle, the Eiffel Tower position should be viewed as a relic of the less progressive sexual past. "The only benefit is that you can you say you did it," he continued. In Procida's eyes, the Eiffel Tower can be filed under the category of purely novelty sex positions, the kind that very few of us actually bring to the bedroom. "If you'd define the Eiffel Tower as when our hands are joined above hers or as there being a high-five involved, then I'm not sure I've ever actually done it," said New York-based comedian Billy Procida, an OnlyFans creator and host of " The Manwhore Podcast." "I've definitely been part of several Eiffel Towers under construction, though." Studies of kinky, queer or polyamorous respondents might yield wildly different results, but the existing research indicates we're way more likely to fantasize about threesomes than to actually have them. Although 64 percent of the 274 respondents expressed interest in group sex, only 13 percent––8 percent of women and 24 percent of men––said they had any real-life experience with it. In 2016, researchers conducted an in-depth study of heterosexual attitudes toward group sex, published in Archives of Sexual Behavior. Plenty of people might masturbate to group sex scenes, but the scarce statistics on group sex indicate these fantasies rarely become reality. ![]() Kinky three-ways are close to the top of the list Among women, it was the fourth-most popular. In the United States "threesome" was the seventh-most popular search term overall. According to Pornhub's 2021 Year in Review, searches for " threesome" grew by 40 percent worldwide, perhaps unsurprising given the touch-starved horniness that characterized yet another wave of global lockdowns. The novelty value of this position is obvious, but does anyone actually do it?īefore digging any deeper, it's worth zooming out to ask how many of us regularly have three-way sex in general. ![]() ![]() ![]() "The high-five creates the shape of the Eiffel Tower." "The Eiffel Tower position gets its name because, in heterosexual culture, the two guys would high-five," explained sex educator Gigi Engle, A.S.C., who is based in London. It's most commonly billed as an MFM (male-female-male) position, but people of all genders can use strap-ons, butt plugs and, of course, their imagination to make it work for them, too. This tongue-in-cheek, frat-boy favorite starts with classic double penetration, with one partner being penetrated two ways––usually anally and orally––by two other partners. Perhaps no three-way sex position is mentioned more often than the Eiffel Tower.
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